Sometimes we fall for the idea of what success is based on others measurements and criteria, people set examples like you gotta make X amount of money, you have to work for top 100 fortune companies etc… all that is good but we measure our success comparing where we stand vs where they are at, or based on what they are setting as a standard to be successful, and we forget the fact that we are the ones who should be setting those standards, we are the ones who need to be aware of our lives and where is it going, what is the purpose of it, and why we are doing whatever we are doing?
Most likely while we are looking for those answers, we will discover more about who we are and what we really believe in, our values, targets we are looking for, interests and vision that we want to live for, and that would be your scale to measure your success, but before that if we will grant ourselves that power or acknowledge it we better get ourselves ready for it and prepare ourselves the right way,don’t let people set it for you, you go build yours and show it to everyone, may be someone else will follow because they choose the same path and if they did and you were one of the reasons to inspire them, then Congratulation because you just didn’t help yourself to find it and thats it, you actually did find it and inspired others as well, so make sure if you are looking for yours first, look carefully and know the Consequences!
M Whispers